The keyboard and touchpad also don’t hold a candle to MacBooks.
It has essentially outlived 4 Windows laptops. I expect the M1 Air to still be relevant in a decade, as well.
My point is that Apple doesn't have a monopoly on quality. Perhaps I'm pretty lucky in this sense, but I have had great longevity out of all of my hardware, and I have owned very few Apple devices.
If the characteristics of the SSD in an M1 are sufficiently similar to the SSDs that were used back then (I have no clue if that's the case), wear out will be a non-issue.
This is why people are concerned about SSD endurance. An old SLC SSD's NAND would be good for many, many writes, tho the controller would often fail. Nowadays the NAND fails, but the controller is fine.
So not turn key, but also not a rip off prison like Apple :)
One point to the XPS: the pixel density of the 4k 13" was absolutely LOVELY. I have never seen a screen so nice.
There is really no comparison overall, though: the Apple laptops blow them (and everything else in that category) out of the water.
The top end iPhones are similarly 2-3 years ahead of the flagship Pixel devices in build quality, too. I tried, really I did.