You haven't moved on because of your parents.

SSN is voluntary. If parents would stop opting-in their babies into this data scheme, Americans could grow up without these numbers.

The only thing you are achieving is to add extra paperwork and hassle to your daughter's future when she later has a job or opens a bank account.

We are allowing our children to make their own choices when they are adults. If they want to opt-in to SSN as adults, they will be able to do that. America is eager to let children choose everything including their gender, so why not preserve their SSN choice until they are an adult?

Last week I opened yet another savings account with name roughly "baby girl trust" and the tax ID I got that morning from IRS website for the _trust_. New account setup was super easy because I had everything the credit union wanted for their back office.

I luckily had a lot of free time and motivation to learn this stuff. Most Americans don't know and presume it is therefore not possible.

> SSN is voluntary.

"Voluntary" but required to live like a normal human being isn't very "voluntary" in reality.

Get a job without an SSN.

Employer is required to verify citizen or immigration status. For an American with a passport, the passport works okay.

Passport works great for ID all around, because it does not require SSN and does not have home address.

Many things, like TSA (Soviet era) checkpoints don't actually require ID. People seemingly prefer to act like cattle and show IDs everywhere and voluntarily consent to full body scans. Then people complain that their bits of privacy got leaked. Of course it leaked, and you voluntarily consented.

Elsewhere in this thread you're talking about birth certificates being voluntary (they're not). How are you proving citizenship for your passport without one?

You are going to get a lot of people telling you that you're a libertarian nutjob. Even here, which touts itself as a bastion of internet privacy champions and "experts".

But you, you're walking the walk. Asking the hard questions and accepting the consequences. There is only one way to make things change.

Don't let any little pedants tell you "how your daughter is going to grow up", either. Or that they somehow know how she'll feel about you.

FWIW: my kids have SSN's and that is just as dangerous as what you've chose.

Yes, the big brain types sometimes get really pissed off when they find out they were tricked into voluntarily consenting into a bunch of stuff.

When you get/renew passports, leave the SSN box blank. It will become second nature to ignore these data requests.

> You are going to get a lot of people telling you that you're a libertarian nutjob.

No, just making life more difficult for his child, who has no say in the matter.

Some people are bad at seeing children as humans, as opposed to appendages of the parent.

Do you see the irony in your first statement?

Or have you already resolved to believe that person is your "some people"?

The only thing you are achieving is to add extra paperwork and hassle to your daughter's future when she later has a job or opens a bank account.

Honestly, the shortest solution to these problems would be to reshape the law so that banks are 100% responsible for fraud. As in, if they open an account tied to somebody and it turns out to be tied to somebody else? 100% on them, the person who they were deceived into believing they were doing business with is fully protected by the law from any ramifications.

Of course, this would completely change the risk model banks operate under and fundamentally reshape commerce as we know it. Thanks would become hypersensitive, all business would be conducted in person, banks would reserve the right to tie up your money for years if you couldn't prove who you were (think getting your Google account unlocked when Google suspects fraud, except now it's your money in the bank down the street...).