Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture
by dizhn on Saturday August 19, 2023 @01:58AM
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In Iran when you ask a store owner the price of something, the answer is "It's free." Then you have to refuse a few times if it's free and then you can get the price. (Not my personal experience. But I heard the same thing from a few people.)
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This is called Taarof and can be at times quite extreme: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taarof.
I have a good friend whose parents are from Persia/Iran. He told me about this culture after we knew each other for quite some time. Even though he has never lived there, he often still has a hard time not to do this, which has resulted in some funny (at least for his friends) or uncomfortable situations over time. Knowing this, many things I ascribed to his character alone suddenly made a bit more sense.
That sounds like my worst nightmare, haha. I don't run into too many folks from that culture, but this is really good to know about should I find myself talking to someone who follows a similar custom. Thanks for the link!