Yes, I work in a language where junior developers and people deeply unaware of the language advocate anti-patterns and bad practice as matters of law, often for personal defensive reasons. Its hard to not feel patronized. You are correct in that I do not know you, but I have been doing this work long enough to see when people hide behind abstractions they don't understand as necessary to mask their level of confidence and then argue from for best practices from that perspective.

My best possible free advise: only advocate to what you practice. If, for example, you have never written an application in JavaScript without a framework, such as Angular, then you are an Angular developer not a JavaScript developer. If you speak to something you have never practiced with a presence of authority people with 10, 15, or 20 years experience will be condescending. That is why imposter syndrome is a thing. Its better to get the unexpected honesty from some irrelevant guy online than get hired into a job and either get it in person or worse compensating for a manager with imposter syndrome.