Ask vs. Guess Culture

Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by solarmist on Friday August 18, 2023 @01:17PM (#37178882)

I learned his this year. I'm in my 40s.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by AndrewKemendo on Friday August 18, 2023 @01:20PM (#37178946)

Yeah I’m 39 and just learned it last year.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by coding123 on Friday August 18, 2023 @01:32PM (#37179159)

I'm 43 and I think I just learned this in this thread.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by carabiner on Friday August 18, 2023 @02:03PM (#37179668)

That's because we all read Body Keeps the Score at the same time.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by solarmist on Friday August 18, 2023 @02:12PM (#37179795)

Haven't read it yet. I guess I should.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by AndrewKemendo on Friday August 18, 2023 @03:19PM (#37180722)

Close…Atlas of the Heart

Along with a bunch of other more medical reading

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by solarmist on Friday August 18, 2023 @03:29PM (#37180868)

+1 for Atlas of the Heart, but that was more useful after I handled my childhood trauma.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by Cthulhu_ on Friday August 18, 2023 @05:08PM (#37182125)

I think a lot of people would benefit from getting some counceling in their earlier adult years, although on the other hand they may not be ready yet / not see any issues yet.

I'm late 30's and same btw.

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Re:Ask vs. Guess Culture by solarmist on Friday August 18, 2023 @08:22PM (#37184024)

I can attest to that. I got an ADHD diagnosis 8 years ago and it wasn’t until last year that I realized it was cPTSD.

In fact, I was proud of being so “responsible” as a kid, not that I was neglected and parentified.

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