Sure, there are widely accepted traits that are associated with attractiveness. Where did I say that is not the case?

Where did I call anyone with a perspective I disagree with an incel?

I literally said that this reads like something that one would find in an incel forum, and compared the idea that specific measurements of the human body being deterministic of their behavior with debunked science of Phrenology.

I think you're reading too much into my perspective and what I agree, or disagree, with.