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Re:Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny by CuriouslyC on Friday August 04, 2023 @09:32AM (#36999785)
It's definitely not that black and white, because they're not directly measuring people's happiness, they're asking them to self-report their relationship satisfaction.

If I had a mediocre partner but I thought that was just how relationships were, I'd probably report being "satisfied" with them, even as I wished relationships weren't such frustrating things. If I thought marriage was an unbreakable bond I'd probably also avoid admitting I was dissatisfied with my partner to anyone (even myself!) as a coping mechanism as well.

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Re:Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny by SoftTalker on Friday August 04, 2023 @10:03AM (#37000218)
The opposite could also be true, that people avoid admitting regret over their promiscuous past by convincing themselves that the "experience" makes them better judges of the quality of their relationships
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Re:Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny by mensetmanusman on Friday August 04, 2023 @07:11PM (#37007054)
There is no possible measure of happiness beyond self reporting, unless you are a dictator who has decided that all your subjects are extremely happy.
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