It sounds like you're supporting OP's view. If someone hasn't put it the time and effort to learn these compromises, communication, patience, and forgiveness previously, why would they do it now with you after they meet you at age 40?
You are right, they won't. Those who worked on themselves, instead of blaming others, will.
Re:Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny
by wolverine876 on Saturday August 05, 2023 @05:06AM
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Yes, yes, yes!
Re:Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny
by wolverine876 on Saturday August 05, 2023 @05:05AM
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> forgiveness
There's an excellent film by Miranda July, The Future, where an older person is discussing relationships with a 30-something having a difficult time in marriage. The older person says that they haven't experienced a real relationship yet because, 'neither of you has done something unforgivable'.
(All based on uncertain memory from years ago.)
If there’s a correlation between number of partners and divorce rates, it’s because someone is consistently failing to learn how to be a better partner.