If you agree with the BITE model then yes. Yes it is.

I guess it depends. I've always liked this phrase, and it's not exclusive to the Christian Bible- it's in other Abrahamic faiths:

"“Because knowledge of the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven has been granted to you, but to them it has not been granted. To anyone who has, more will be given and he will grow rich; from anyone who has not, even what he has will be taken away. This is why I speak to them in parables, because ‘they look but do not see and hear but do not listen or understand.’ Isaiah’s prophecy is fulfilled in them… But blessed are your eyes, because they see, and your ears, because they hear.” – Matthew 13:11-14, 16"

Though I have to say, what is in the ten commandments isn't the most terrible advice. :)

it's good advice. it's what i'd direct my tribe with. that's what it is. the tribe leaders writing what is what for the ordinary people. that becomes their truth. it is a brainwashing, and i think, is basically what cult means.

Judaism doesn't proselytize. It goes out of its way to reject converts[1]. It actively encourages questioning and critical thinking[2]. These attributes are contrary to cults.

1. https://judaism.stackexchange.com/questions/17635/was-judais...

2. https://www.chabad.org/parshah/article_cdo/aid/3574984/jewis...

That’s like finding green patches after a wildfire and pointing out that wildfires aren’t all bad.

is proselytizing a requisite of a cult?

One moment Moses is ordering the male children put to death. Next thing you know 3000 years later somewhere in northern Michigan an old lady is playing the pipe organ while signing off key.