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Re:Ask HN: Is the market bad, or am I having the worst luck ... by WoodenChair on Sunday July 30, 2023 @06:24PM (#36936619)
There's what you want people to do and what they will actually do. Nobody who sees a big red flag and has many other options is going to do that.
Re:Ask HN: Is the market bad, or am I having the worst luck ... by 93po on Sunday July 30, 2023 @07:04PM (#36936933)
Which is fine and fair, but it doesn't really refute my point that this behavior would personally make me disinterested in pursuing them as a romantic interest, and in my opinion suggests they would have compatibility issues for a long-term monogamous relationship.