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Re:Ask HN: Is the market bad, or am I having the worst luck ... by 93po on Sunday July 30, 2023 @12:47PM (#36933116)
The “there’s hundreds of other people” mentality will continue into a relationship and marriage. One of the large issues with dating today is how people treat it disposably. Just ask a question like a normal human. It takes 5 seconds to type it out and the response is probably reassuring
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Re:Ask HN: Is the market bad, or am I having the worst luck ... by WoodenChair on Sunday July 30, 2023 @06:24PM (#36936619)
There's what you want people to do and what they will actually do. Nobody who sees a big red flag and has many other options is going to do that.
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Re:Ask HN: Is the market bad, or am I having the worst luck ... by 93po on Sunday July 30, 2023 @07:04PM (#36936933)
Which is fine and fair, but it doesn't really refute my point that this behavior would personally make me disinterested in pursuing them as a romantic interest, and in my opinion suggests they would have compatibility issues for a long-term monogamous relationship.
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