But on the topic of hash tables, you can only reach 'O(1)' if you can avoid collisions. And to avoid collisions you need a key of length m, which grows as n grows. You cannot put 51 pigeons in 50 pigeonholes. So the key length of your hash keys is m >= logn, which means the time to compare keys is also logn, which means hash tables are never actually O(1) access or insert time. Actual access time for a hash table on non-imaginary hardware is √nlogn, not O(1).
If you consider that we have applications that are just a single hash table occupying the entire RAM of a single machine, then this is not picking nits. It's capacity planning.
I am not sure I am following this argument. You are not going to have more than 2^64 pigeons and pigeonholes on any system soon and I almost dare to say you will never ever get to 2^128. And for 64 or 128 bit keys comparisons and many other operations are for all practical purposes constant time. I guess you could argue that this is sweeping a factor of log(n) under the rug because of things like carry chains which could be faster for smaller bit sizes but I am not sure that this is really useful on common hardware, an addition will take one clock cycle independent of the operand values.