No, I have not forgot the firebombings. They should have weighed the firebombings as the same. But they didn't. Some of it was that it was novel and a single bomb. New capabilities seem to leave an impression, such as V2's for the ability to hit a target without warning, even though they were cost ineffective. But, they were not grasping their predicament.
But take the Soviet case to it's conclusion, and that the bombs had no impact on whether they thought the war should be continued. They could have waited more if it was just the soviets, as all the stated Soviet plans do not involve Honshu. You likely had a couple months at the minimum, even if the soviets rushed. And it's not like I hear any worries of communism in anything, Japan had a pact with them and tried to use them as a third party. So why not try to negotiate openly with the US/GB/China/Soviets then? Half their cabinet thought to try even after everything. No, hirohito, thought the US was going to bomb them to bits in the interim, whether by firebomb or atom bomb, and the offer was only going to get worse. So they ended it.
This isn't to say that maybe the atom bombs weren't needed to come to that position, as the previous bombings might have been enough. Or maybe a few weeks of waiting would have been enough. I ponder if their had been no bombings of any kind, per the rules of war, would Japan have surrendered given the Soviet involvement. I would guess no, considering the margin given and the longevity of such an event creating a way to rationalize out, but still something to think about.
https://blog.nuclearsecrecy.com/2013/03/08/the-decision-to-u...
It's also worth repeated yet again as many seem to have either forgotton or in many cases never knew that when the atomic bombs were dropped on japan it was literally " just " two more cities after 72 cities had already been bombed with a similar degree of destruction, death, and injury stats.
The firebombing of Tokyo was on the same order as H & N.
Cost wise conventional bombing was (at that time) far far cheaper and posed a similar risk to US air forces as there was little to no credible fight back against carpet air bombing at the stage.