Desperate people make desperate decisions, ergo, might makes right? And when did we establish that they're insisting on the war to continue? This is a knot of false assumptions: that people who flee the conflict have some uniform opinion; that this in any way justifies concessions; that people who flee the conflict have a particular unstated but heavily implied moral character.

You can make as much of a show of extending me good will add you please, this is not a good faith argument and I have no hangups about calling it a spade.