If you do get in and back out, make sure to ground yourself by touching the bare metal of the pump itself before you grab the nozzle. It's not perfect, but it's much safer than not taking the time to ground at all.
Compared to all the other risks of cars and gasoline, the relative risk seems miniscule.
I'll note that in the state I live (MN) it's technically illegal to get back in your car while pumping (you have to be " in close attendance to the dispenser nozzle").
Would that little spark be enough to ignite the vapors? I have no earthly idea.
Yes.
> Gasoline...has a flashpoint of minus 43°C. Sparks and static electricity can easily ignite gasoline fumes.[0]
They couldn't do it and even when for the laughs they decided to blow it up with a match it still didn't ignite.
Probably best to not use entertainment shows as a metric for safety.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=FPKen4QwY7I