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Re:Ways to Say No – With Grace and Style by trogdor on Sunday June 25, 2023 @08:21PM (#36474124)
>He's simply believes that I'm unreliable. (Or something like that. He never clearly told me what his problem with me was.)

Have you asked him?

Re:Ways to Say No – With Grace and Style by throwaway_woxx7 on Sunday June 25, 2023 @10:12PM (#36474927)
The last time I spoke to him, I stated something along the lines of "I know that you have some problems with me". My goal was to see what could be done to reconcile with him. He explicitly denied having any problems with me. I was applying for jobs at the time and needed references from him, and after this conversation he stopped replying to those requests. His behavior doesn't make sense if he really doesn't have any problems with me.