Re:All the Single Ladies – Men floundering, women most affected
by antisthenes on Tuesday June 13, 2023 @11:06PM
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Also women with impossible standards (e.g. 6'+, $200k+/yearly, loves dogs, wants (or doesn't) kids, is single, from a good family, won't cheat, owns his own house, blue eyes, etc.) refusing to lower them in search of a partner well into their 30s, then wondering "where all the good men are".
Re:All the Single Ladies – Men floundering, women most affected
by ArcticLandfall on Wednesday June 14, 2023 @12:10AM
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Bo Burnham's "Lower your expectations" is a hilarious comedy song covering this exact point. For both men and women.
Re:All the Single Ladies – Men floundering, women most affected
by steine65 on Wednesday June 14, 2023 @04:14PM
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It was good, thanks!
https://youtu.be/llGvsgN17CQ
Re:All the Single Ladies – Men floundering, women most affected
by apsurd on Wednesday June 14, 2023 @12:45AM
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all 4 billion women want that laundry list of qualities?
that's silly to say isn't it, of course you didn't mean literally all women, but that's why i'm commenting - it's crazy to me how we choose to play other people's games. find other circles. lest you're attracted to who you're attracted... but then umm... so women shouldn't be?
Re:All the Single Ladies – Men floundering, women most affected
by LorenPechtel on Wednesday June 14, 2023 @11:50AM
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Fundamentally, it's that women typically want a partner that's above them--but with society being basically equal now there is a dearth of such men. It's going to take a while to adjust to having to settle for someone who is simply your equal.
Popular culture has become structurally anti-male. The ease at which we're described as simplistic, violent, sexual addicts doesn't seem to surprise anyone anymore.
This article almost makes a humanitarian problem out of a luxury problem: highly educated women unable to find somebody even richer than them.