Also to add nothing wrong with video games, I can't do woess very well but what I mean is they tend to have some 'identifier' that they're proud to not be like all the 'normal peoplw'
I don't have any quirky interests. I like trash TV and doing my nails. Somehow that's not acceptable
Almost put me off when I was considering careers but people in real life are much more diverse with a variety of interest. And they don't live/breathe/eat code.
I'm an autistic woman with ADHD but because my interests are typically girly people don't believe it...