I think that assessment by a first responder is a very difficult decision to put on someone.
Even if you wear a DNR bracelet, there's a good chance that it'll be ignored. Bystanders often don't know to look for them and have no legal obligation to abide by them. Healthcare professionals routinely err on the side of caution if there is any doubt about the validity of a DNR order, in no small part because wrongful prolongation of life lawsuits are generally much less costly than wrongful death lawsuits.
Advance healthcare planning is a much more complicated business than simply wearing a bracelet. We need a broad societal conversation about end-of-life care, not least because DNRs are often misunderstood by both patients and healthcare professionals.
And oh man that's a no win if I've ever seen one.
> She has written about performing chest compressions on a frail, elderly patient and feeling his ribs crack like twigs. She found herself wishing she were "holding his hand in his last dying moments, instead of crushing his sternum." She told me that she's had nightmares about it. She described noticing his eyes, which were open, while she was performing CPR. Blood spurted out of his endotracheal tube with each compression.
> "I felt like I was doing harm to him," she told me. "I felt like he deserved a more dignified death."