I understand (but would still be vupset) if rpi org was disallowing this on the grounds of commercial reasons, not the other way around.
But this is just on a whole another level.
From what I can gather, PlatformIO is not willing to fund future development on RPI themselves, and reached out to the much better capitalized RPI foundation to try to get funding. They may or may not have been assholes in how they did that, we'll probably never know. Asking wasn't insane, rejecting the patch isn't... Insane per se, even if it's probably shooting themselves in the foot by denying themselves a huge customer base. Their communication has been poor as heck, though.
I am intentionally not warning about JWZs policy on links from HN, because it's funny to me.
if i want the prestige of my code being in their project
LOL yeah that's definitely why this contribution is happening /sWell... isn't that what their customers are paying them for?
It's the non-paying "customers" who are the problem here, expecting PlatformIO to grow in ways that the core team sees as unsustainable.
Sure sounds like PlatformIO folks are just being dicks for no reason. This is like someone trying to get me to pay a penalty for scammer A catfishing person B on dating site C with my picture...