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Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by realjhol on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @06:31AM (#36056106)
That's because it was never about helping "level the playing field" - thats just the message they placated the public with. Rather this is a patronage network; a way of giving gifts to client groups of the power structure.
Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by ethanbond on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @06:46AM (#36056202)
“Never?” One can argue we’ve gotten as close as possible to a level playing field or even over shot in some areas, but to say that the cultural changes that have been fought and won over the last 100 years or so have never been about leveling the playing field is utterly detached from reality.

You do realize that, for example, a husband could legally rape his wife in any US state until the 1970s? This wouldn’t be illegal in every state until 1993!

Let me reiterate that: there were people in the United States of America who did not have any legal protection from rape until 1993.

Subjugation of women (and of minority groups) is not some mythical injustice and it’s not even a distant injustice.

We’re talking about thousands of years subjugation and vast amounts of progress being made in the last 50-100 years. It’s insane to refer to this as “never” been about fixing real problems.

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by surgical_fire on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:19AM (#36056430)
Is the problem solved?

I mean, who measures at which point "women and minority groups" are not subjugated anymore? Is there any incentive for this moment ever coming to pass?

By the way, I'm not even against whatever progress was made. I do question whether the progress created actual improvement, but in truth I do not really care.

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by ethanbond on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:22AM (#36056463)
These are important and difficult questions and 100% distinct from the claim “this was never about leveling the playing field.”
Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by sanitycheck on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:07AM (#36056355)
Minor nit: hundreds of thousands?! Maybe let's just take this back to the beginning of recorded history in 2600BC? And ancient Egypt was apparently OK for women (or at least not worse than for men), to pick a random example.

No disagreement with the rest though.

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by PostOnce on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:21AM (#36056457)
I had typed an argument of that nature, but closed the tab because I didn't want to spend time arguing.

Now that you mention it, though, my problem is with the word subjugation, which isn't an accurate descriptor of what was happening 200,000 years ago when we were living in small bands in the woods, starving, being hunted by animals stronger than us.

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by ethanbond on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:25AM (#36056493)
There is no reason (that I’m aware of) to think that prior to recorded history we were somehow more restrained with groups/individuals who were weaker than us or outsiders.

But hey, I suppose you never know.

Edited to be sure not to distract from the actual thrust of the argument :)

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by dequor on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:26AM (#36056501)
I sincerely doubt that had any real implication. Transport was quite bad those days and dragging them across 50 states would be quite taxing on a horse. The law changed accordingly as the situation evolved
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Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by ajot on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @07:23AM (#36056477)
Rape also involves lack of consent from one party, that distinguishes rape from sex.

How is adultery far worse than rape? If your wife cheats on you, well, it sure is no happy moment, but you divorce and look for another person in your life.

Maybe this is a cultural thing (I'm from South America), and you come from a place where it's ok to impose to your wife to have sex, as if she had no volition of her own and no authority onto her own body.

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by realjhol on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @08:11AM (#36056913)
We're talking about affirmative action. These programmes are not designed to level the playing field, but to reward friends and punish enemies.
Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by ethanbond on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @08:25AM (#36057029)
“Affirmative action” as a legal concept, at least in America, started in 1961, about 14 years before women in America had a legally-protected right to apply for credit cards.

Feel free to argue that affirmative action was a mistake or is complete or has overshot its goal, or that it’s used as a tool of corruption in some instances, but you are simply incorrect when you suggest that these reforms originated out of some spontaneous ambush on reformers’ “enemies.”

Re:Hypergamy: Much More Than You Wanted to Know by solarkraft on Wednesday May 24, 2023 @06:50AM (#36056232)
Just like the patronage network of before, but this time with other people. I like this one more because I'm more closely associated with it.