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Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by bee_rider on Monday April 17, 2023 @11:51PM (#35609776)
I’ve never heard of this sort of thing. It almost seems more like an informal club than a group of friends. (Not to knock the idea, it seems interesting).
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by htag on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @12:03AM (#35609830)
Weekly hangs are real. I have started and participated in several. I think a key to a good group hang is to have an activity that serves as a base narrative for why everyone is together. The activity should be easy enough for newcomers to join in, and compelling enough to keep people coming back.
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by ryanmentor on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @12:27AM (#35609955)
Even something as simple at 'eating pizza' is enough of a frame to be useful
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by milkytron on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @03:20PM (#35618708)
This is exactly what my neighbor does. He makes some fantastic home made pizzas and invites over the neighbors every Friday. You're welcome to bring whoever, but the dude can only make so much pizza, so people try to be courteous.
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by washmyelbows on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @02:42AM (#35610712)
yup. weekly trivia nights at the pub did it for us. most of us are drinkers, but for those that aren't there's still dinner, a fun activity and good company
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by shalmanese on Monday April 17, 2023 @11:53PM (#35609780)
Really? I feel like every time I'm in another part of the country for more than a few days, one of my friends will invite me to their weekly hang and I get to meet a bunch of other cool folk.
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by rocketbop on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @12:31AM (#35609981)
I don’t live in the US but I’ve also never heard of this or really come across it. Is it about going to someone’s home? Or meeting at a bar? I can’t quite visualise what you’re talking about.