Why should someone without a family invest more at work just because you consider work a secondary thing?
It is.
> Why should someone without a family invest more at work just because you consider work a secondary thing?
This is a weird take.
Do you get mad at your coworkers when they take time off?
But dont forget that family is an optional thing, that you decided to go for. Your coworkers without a family actually dont care how you spend your spare time. But if you are using your family as an excuse at work, we start to care, and see that you are trying to enforce unfairness.
Its your family, deal with it as you like, but dont take it with you to work.
You sound like those American walmart managers that tried to set up in Germany and got BTFO because spineless business worship is not entertained.