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Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by zinclozenge on Monday March 27, 2023 @02:24PM (#35330314)
It also turns out, a lot fewer people are as into hiking as they claim on their profile.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by waboremo on Monday March 27, 2023 @02:31PM (#35330417)
Yes exactly, By including [hobby] here, you're able to weed out people you won't connect with for other reasons.

Going back to hiking as an example, you can weed out unfit people without having to actively filter them out, as they'll see your profile and your like of "hiking" and self select out. People do this with a lot of things on their profile, they don't seriously care about whatever that thing is just what it represents.

Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by havermeyer on Monday March 27, 2023 @02:32PM (#35330433)
That would also be interesting to analyze: which de facto attributes do people add because they think they're needed to pass an initial screening?
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by thephyber on Monday March 27, 2023 @05:17PM (#35332771)
I’ve seen profiles which mention:

- God/faith in the first line of profile - credit score - homeowner status - have a job/career - vaccine status - political party (and demands for the partner’s party affiliation) - FlatEartherism and other outlier conspiracy theories - the “three sixes club” - Dan Savage’s “GGG”

Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by agentdrtran on Monday March 27, 2023 @02:44PM (#35330611)
it's used as a proxy for fitness.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by giraffe_lady on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:13PM (#35331003)
It's used as a proxy for "thin and not disabled."
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by wing-_-nuts on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:31PM (#35331202)
As someone with a disability, this tracks lol. I don't outright disclose my disability on my profile (saved for dms, as some people can be creepy), but I say my idea of 'hiking' is more like a casual stroll in the local botanical gardens.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by AllegedAlec on Monday March 27, 2023 @04:19PM (#35331882)
And people are not allowed to pick their partner based on that?
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by giraffe_lady on Monday March 27, 2023 @04:28PM (#35332020)
I'm describing a behavior not trying to be the partnership police.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by agentdrtran on Monday March 27, 2023 @05:07PM (#35332642)
they are, but I think it's interesting how people feel the need to hide this. it's not like only skinny people can go hiking.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by tekla on Monday March 27, 2023 @02:50PM (#35330701)
Imagine my surprise when 98% of all people I've ever seen claim to like hiking meant at most a hour or two walk up a hill, versus something that could take over a day with several thousand foot elevation changes.

Really soured me on that category.

Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by dotancohen on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:09PM (#35330950)
Honestly, I love hiking. My family does maybe a dozen or so hikes per year - and every hike is under six hours, often under four. Perhaps we need a different word for the two activities.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by sixstringtheory on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:43PM (#35331370)
I would say what you do is hiking and anything that takes over a day is “backpacking”. Then you can get into “urban” vs “backcountry”/“remote”/“wilderness”.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by akiselev on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:52PM (#35331495)
If it takes over a day then its backpacking, not hiking. At least that's how I and most people colloquially understand the two.
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by Nifty3929 on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:52PM (#35331504)
Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by midoridensha on Tuesday March 28, 2023 @01:49AM (#35336446)
Anything over a day is not "hiking", that's "backpacking", as another poster said.

There's a reason that outdoor boots are divided into "hiking boots" and "backpacking boots". The two are significantly different.

Re:Online daters are less open-minded than their filters sug... by hn_throwaway_99 on Monday March 27, 2023 @03:17PM (#35331051)
My favorite Grindr profile text that I once saw was "Y'all can't possibly be into hiking as much as you say you are."