People point out RedHat provide newer compilers (and newer patched C++ standard libraries depending on the default one!) and he says "It's not us, it's our customers. And no, they won't use any compiler which isn't the system default".

Either you only use the system defaults, and that includes the old Boost included with RHEL, or you don't. I guess he includes a private Boost copy as part of his project. Well, include a private GCC too then. A dependency is a dependency

Those customers have silly requirements for no reason. The whole world shouldn't make efforts to accommodate them.

I am going to bet those customers are going to argue about "stability". All this comes from people reading "stable" as "rock solid, never crashes, always works as expected" when in the case of RHEL it actually means "it doesn't change, no new bugs introduced, and you can relly on the old bugs staying there". Those customers just need educating.