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Re:Want an unfair advantage in your tech career? Consume con... by serjester on Monday March 06, 2023 @03:29PM (#35047125)

I think this far more likely is influenced by your demeanor going into it. If you come off as arrogant or condescending people will rightfully be skeptical of your intentions. They'll assume you're trying to micro manage them and obviously you'll get pushback.

On the other hand if you come off as genuinely interested in what other people are doing with no ulterior motives, 95% of the time you'll get warm feedback. I think you'd be hard pressed to find someone that'd react confrontationally to a middle schooler asking about their job. Why? Because their intentions are innocent.

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Re:Want an unfair advantage in your tech career? Consume con... by eastbayjake on Monday March 06, 2023 @05:40PM (#35048804)

Asking "how can I be helpful?" is a huge unlock: almost everyone has too much to do and not enough time, and thus almost everyone will welcome help from someone else. (And if the way you're "poking your nose in other departments" is perceived as value-destructive instead of helpful, that is probably the root cause.)

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Re:Want an unfair advantage in your tech career? Consume con... by circlefavshape on Tuesday March 07, 2023 @04:41AM (#35053433)

Gotta say I've heard "how can I be helpful" once too often from people trying to poke their clueless noses in my business. Just asking about what I'm working on is totally fine though

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Re:Want an unfair advantage in your tech career? Consume con... by circlefavshape on Tuesday March 07, 2023 @04:50AM (#35053486)

Or more accurately ... I've heard "how can I be helpful" too often from one particular person who is invariably the opposite of helpful, and now if anyone else says it I'm instantly suspicious

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Re:Want an unfair advantage in your tech career? Consume con... by runnerup on Tuesday March 07, 2023 @05:35AM (#35053799)

Or heard it as a criticism -- the underlying implication that one is struggling.

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