Re:Lucky girl syndrome and the endless rebranding of “The Se...
by navhc on Saturday March 04, 2023 @11:37PM
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Being told you're gifted often isn't a self fulfilling prophecy, and can easily lead to failure or giving up when being gifted isn't working.
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Re:Lucky girl syndrome and the endless rebranding of “The Se...
by screamingninja on Saturday March 04, 2023 @11:49PM
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"Giving up when things get too hard" is a gift in itself. Not everyone is good at knowing when to stop.
Re:Lucky girl syndrome and the endless rebranding of “The Se...
by bberrry on Sunday March 05, 2023 @02:43AM
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I'd say that applies extremely rarely. When success depends on putting in the work (which is most often the case, especially if you have a higher aptitude than most), giving up easily is a major impediment.
I say this as someone who had this problem myself. Always being told "things come so easily to you" made me immediately avoid everything where I didn't excel out of the gate.