If men actually listened to that perspective, they'd have a lot more success with women. Instead, they seem to insist that they're right, and the women are wrong, and they're going to keep doing these behaviors that put women off. They'd rather cling to their perspectives, even over the opportunity to get laid.
But I see as much bad as a problem the abundance of fearmongering news like that on root, which creates big awe for paranoia, which (in this case because these are heterosexual matters) polarizes discussion, which motivates people like you and archagon to decree that blaming will solve anything. Luckily for my mild contempt of your (and archagon's, and whoever else's in this milieu) comment, a generation of men and women having a million other (in their head) "more important things to do" than fail indefinitely at mating, getting old and die childless and probably alone shall be a problem your sons are going to inherit.
I don't know how to break that cycle for those who are committed to it. But any sons of mine would understand that women just like to be treated with respect, and they'll be as successful with women as I have been.
Her granddaughter goes online, where she makes herself available for dating. And yeah, she knows she's going to get a lot of unpleasantness, but at least it's confined to a place she's expecting it. It's not following her into every grocery store, every restaurant, every gym.
The behavior was always creepy. Women were just expected to tolerate it. If you want to meet somebody romantically, go to the places set aside for it. Which also includes some people in some bars, in fact, but you know that every woman on a dating site is there for dating.