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Re:Research: The Transformative Power of Sabbaticals by konart on Tuesday February 28, 2023 @01:35AM (#34966359)
I think it's very indivildual. My daughter is 9 months old now and only first 1-2 months were pretty draining. But then you just get used to it. Note that I'm working from home (for 4 years now). So it's not like I was rushing to an office asap every day.

This may be different if you have more that one kid or a different family situation of course.

Re:Research: The Transformative Power of Sabbaticals by dorkwood on Tuesday February 28, 2023 @06:55AM (#34968317)
Might things change when she starts walking?
Re:Research: The Transformative Power of Sabbaticals by csunbird on Tuesday February 28, 2023 @10:55AM (#34970673)
Exactly my thought. A well-sleeping kid who stays where you put them is not that much work for now. But when they start being mobile and explore the world on their own, you will need to keep an eye on them forever.
Re:Research: The Transformative Power of Sabbaticals by konart on Tuesday February 28, 2023 @11:54PM (#34978918)
Well, fortunatelly or not: things always change. Not to mention we are planning more kids.

But still: everything is individual.

Re:Research: The Transformative Power of Sabbaticals by reitanqild on Tuesday February 28, 2023 @08:59AM (#34969334)
My first was daughter was very quiet and I thought I somehow had got something right on first try. The next four of my kids has not been even though they share both parents.

I think I should be happy for this: If they'd all been as harmonic as my first one I could easily ended up giving well meant parenting advice telling others "just do as I did, be kind and careful and encouraging and it will sort itself out".