I just make up a story and take time off. There are so many unpredictable ways work gets delayed no matter what deadlines are set. So don't worry abt the deadlines.

Most ppl don't know what they are doing or how to do it well, when it comes to dealing with other ppls mental health issues. And many make things worse with their "good intentions". So don't involve them unless they are good friends, or there is evidence they know what they are doing.