It's more about economizing the power supply package and heatsink integrated within the bulb or lamp assembly.
That’s not how it works. When charging, the alternator will put more load on the engine and that will increase fuel input to keep rpm up enough to keep the engine from stalling.
Overall, every vehicle designer will seek to minimize any and all loads (even small ones).
Worst is when they remove the spare tire, grrrrrr.
Mass produced cars have reached the point that a $0.50 saving per vehicle is worth designing and building for. When you reduce the current draw from something that is always-on (like headlights) you increase the life of the LED, you can reduce the gauge (size) of the wires to the lights, you can reduce the size of the alternator, you can load the alternator less, which means increase the service life of the alternator belt and idlers, and (in theory, at least) decrease fuel consumption.
All of these are tiny, tiny efficiencies, but they do add up.
While it might seem penny-wise and pound-foolish, imagine following this same logic for all systems in a modern vehicle. This is why even such a "rugged offroad" vehicle as a Jeep Wrangler has a plastic clutch slave cylinder (weight and cost savings) and why the headlights will dim in virtually all vehicles if you turn on every single electrical device that draws current (the wires are not sufficient gauge for everything to draw max current at the same time).
They're saving actual money on every vehicle built, which is what they care about.
LEDs can be done similarly, but an LED matrix headlight just controls which rows of LEDs are lit up (e.g. the Samsung PixCell light that Tesla uses on the Model 3/Y). This is where we'll maybe see adaptive headlights, too, though in the case of Tesla I don't believe they've ever been used anywhere in the world, legal or not. Just to write "TESLA" on the wall when you do the Light Show.
All on the basis that “lol humans don’t notice the flicker”? Uh, okay, but animals? The 99th percentile humans? Subconscious effects on fatigue (that you mention)?
Seems penny-wise and pound-foolish.