Let me get this straight... you turned down a nearly seven-figure income because you would be required to not work at home and you were asked to stick to the same office hours as cubible farm workers making a tenth of that income?

Umm... wat!?

Income has logarithmic value. His options were to make 350k and be happy day to day or make twice that and be in an activity hostile environment. Lifestyle wise there is little meaningful difference between 350k and 700k when you don’t have much free time to spend it.

Sure in theory he would be able to retire sooner etc, but retirement isn’t such a big deal if you don’t hate your job. Also, savings compounds so saving 3x as much doesn’t mean working 1/3 as long especially when you consider social security benefits etc.

I think you misunderstood. The job pressures you into overtime.

And what have you done to earn their trust that it should bother you so much?

It's ok that you feel bitter about missing out on that comp because you're not type-A enough, no need to cover it up with these wishy-washy non-complaints.