Need help with students who've turned my class into a dating service

Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by throway33 on Monday January 30, 2023 @11:41PM (#34591220)

If you happen to be an intelligent and decent young man from a male-dominated major who legitimately likes helping others who are struggling to learn the subject you're passionate about, how would women in your dating pool, who find those personality traits attractive, discover that about you?

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Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by Tozen on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @12:05AM (#34591403)

And, you will likely never get answers from the other side about how to do such, outside of: magic, stars aligning, fate, luck, or a shoulder shrug response.

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Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by ofcourseyoudo on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @12:08AM (#34591423)

Maybe they would notice you help whoever asks for it, not just attractive women, and by contrast they would think, "Hey, he seems decent, not like those creeps that only have tutoring sessions for hotties."

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Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by throway33 on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @01:49AM (#34592060)

Of course, that's a given. But how would this happen, if you aren't even there to begin with?

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Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by charcircuit on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @02:30AM (#34592347)

>Maybe they would notice

And how would she notice if you weren't in her class? The chances are extremely low compared to if you joined her class and made an effort to socialize with her.

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