Need help with students who've turned my class into a dating service

Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by RedShift1 on Monday January 30, 2023 @10:12PM (#34590391)

I never dated when I was in school, if I could advise my past self I'd say try to get as many dates as you can because after school it dries up pretty fast... I'm 36 now and still single -_-.

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Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by waynesonfire on Monday January 30, 2023 @10:23PM (#34590473)

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the next best time is today.

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Re:Need help with students who've turned my class into a dat... by type-r on Monday January 30, 2023 @11:40PM (#34591212)

I think often we way over-weight environmental factors in this area. As individuals we have crazy amounts of agency to change things for ourselves. FWIW I barely dated in school, partly because I didn't care much for social interaction but also (maybe mostly) because I was quite clueless about romantic attraction. Since graduating and especially getting into my 30s, things have become so much easier.

Especially as a male, you can really change your situation by consistently choosing to invest in becoming a compelling partner.

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