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Re:Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you re... by locallost on Monday January 30, 2023 @11:13AM (#34581713)
I don't think it's about not wanting to look at things - my wife once moved something from me from the bathroom above the sink to a shelf, and I got pissed I couldn't find it. She said it was too much stuff there. I then went there and counted 17 things that belonged to her, and 2 that belonged to me, 1 of which was apparently too much.

In my experience women do this a lot. I don't know if it's some kind of an evolutionary thing. On the one hand that it was something women traditionally did and can't let go, on the other that it is/was a way to make themselves more important. You become very important when somebody needs you all the time to tell them where things are.

Re:Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you re... by JohnAaronNelson on Monday January 30, 2023 @11:20AM (#34581854)
Maybe your anecdotes don’t define the evolutionary history of women?
Re:Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you re... by locallost on Monday January 30, 2023 @11:41AM (#34582296)
Maybe, I really don't know.
Re:Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you re... by timeon on Monday January 30, 2023 @01:35PM (#34584301)
I have this experience too. But I think it is more general: people are more critical of others then themselves.