I know there are many that are grateful for what he does, and the support he gets from us, his family - however the negative hurts a heck of a lot more and create deeper wounds. However I can't sit at the sidelines this time, and as I told jnoller, usually this stuff happens on lists or sites I am not on.. well this time it is on HN and my filter between my brain and fingers and keyboard is turned off for the moment.