using the square root to convert area to perimeter, for example, is an application of square roots, one where the negative root is kinda useless. That’s not the definition of the operation. The definition of the operation is the solution to y = xx. And sure for many applications the negative root is useless, but you can’t argue against that both -2 -2 and 2*2 = 4.
So, by definition, the square root of 4 is +2. x * x = 4 has two solutions, which we dub +sqrt(2) and -sqrt(2).
But anyway, when talking about THE nth root, we're almost always talking about the principal root.
The gap is much wider than that; double-entry bookkeeping speaks of "credit" and "debit" (defined to be exactly the same concept as positive and negative numbers) because negative numbers were still nearly unknown to Europeans in the 15th century.