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Re:Cruel Optimism (and Lazy Pessimism) by bartread on Wednesday January 18, 2023 @10:27AM (#34427800)
Blind dates, and this is nothing to do with physical attractiveness, have in my experience been a disillusioning opportunity to find out how little my friends actually know me, to the point where I started refusing to go on them any more around 10 years ago.

I'm now fortunate enough to be getting married to a wonderful woman in a few weeks so (I hope) this will forever more be a non-issue, but I'd always rather get to know someone in a group setting if friends think we might click without the unnecessary pressure of it being a date.

Re:Cruel Optimism (and Lazy Pessimism) by willcipriano on Wednesday January 18, 2023 @10:51AM (#34428222)
I find it odd that you have this expectation that a woman exactly curated to your tastes should be delivered to you by your friend group. Have either the GP or yourself ever set anyone else up on a blind date that met with these exacting standards?

I know that the truth hurts and don't mind the downvotes.