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Re:Kids and music lessons: why do many promising players qui... by 8f2ab37a-ed6c on Thursday January 05, 2023 @02:55AM (#34257169)
I wonder why parents do this. Parental cargo cutting? Cheap baby sitting?
Re:Kids and music lessons: why do many promising players qui... by kibibyte on Thursday January 05, 2023 @03:12AM (#34257270)
Parental cargo culting, probably. "It makes you smarter" (tenuous, as hinted in article), "all the other parents are doing it to their children"/"I want my child to be better than theirs" (this can be very cultural), "it looks good on your college applications" (this becomes a reason later on, and is also very tenuous), etc.
Re:Kids and music lessons: why do many promising players qui... by ycombobreaker on Thursday January 05, 2023 @08:58AM (#34259584)
Children's interests can be fickle. Learning a skill takes a serious investment of time, and a child left totally to their own devices could end up bailing on a lot of interests prematurely, because they never get over the initial hump. This is a natural part of parenting, to teach your children about investment of effort.

The horror cases like GP's "9 years" are essentially a miscalibration, failing to recognize a suitable stopping point.

"Cheap babysitting" is not it. Lessons are short and more expensive than childcare. Enforcement of practice time is a hassle (and a balancing act!)

Re:Kids and music lessons: why do many promising players qui... by jbirer on Friday January 06, 2023 @12:26PM (#34277791)
Status seeking behavior and Narcissism. They are more concerned over their children making them look good to other parents / people than their kid enjoying themselves.