Blind faith in an economic theory against all empirical evidence is a dead end.
But they didn't. Instead, FTX used crypto as a means to transfer funds into their own, centralized custody. Not much different from a bank wire.
This isn't a "communism would work perfectly" style argument at all. I'm really not sure of what you're getting at, or if you understand how crypto works beyond surface level articles.
It's actually pretty easy, and a fair few people do. Uniswap v3 currently has a 24h trading volume of $317,196,156, and the app is trivial to use. Curve's app is ugly but not hard to use, and has a 24h trading volume of $199,693,574. Maybe you think those numbers aren't all that impressive, and sure, I'd like the decentralised trading venues to be doing more, but it's a far cry from 'nobody'.
Second, if these defi systems exist, why are so many still keeping their money on exchanges like FTX/Binance/Coinbase/etc without such protections? I suspect it has to do with convenience or maybe cost - smart contracts require "gas" to run, no?
These defi systems do indeed exist and are used by quite a few people (including occasionally me). 'Why are so many still keeping their money on [centralised] exchanges', is a question that a lot of people in the cryptocurrency ecosystem ask themselves despairingly. While UX could be better, it's really not that bad - the real answer is that the vast majority of people investing are 'number go up' investors, used to the stockmarket, rather than people who actually care about the core ideas of decentralisation, programmable money, etc.
But even if exchanges were the only way, that trust time is quite minimized, compared to the status quo.
To your second point, I agree it has to do with convenience. IMO the main reason is crypto UX is still very bad. The space is going to need some major new hardware and software solutions before going anywhere near mainstream.
There absolutely are decentralised exchanges, working extremely well and safe ways to keep your cryptocurrency. I use them. It's very odd to come on here and find people claiming that my experience of cryptocurrency is impossible.
But also we should remember that pretty much every bank in the US would have FTXed it's customers money in 2008 if the government hadn't bailed them out.
This is something that keeps coming up: the regulations and institutions in traditional finance exist largely because it already went through the same pain that crypto finance ia going through now.
The government forced the banks to take money so people couldn’t tell which ones were in real trouble and which ones were fine.
The fact that it's not related should tell you something. Cryptocurrency is designed to solve exactly the problems FTX had. It is designed to enable trustless finance. Why didn't cryptocurrency prevent that problem?
Because FTX wasn't using cryptocurrency, because cryptocurrency is unworkable.