No.
The nazi party was not the only competitor for power and among those, it was only genocidal by ideology. Germany could end up as military dictatorship - there would be imperialism but it would not be the same. It could end up as actual democratic country too. But, the party that won were Nazi and there, Hitler was the one who made that party big.
On your specific points:
> you have to also count and subtract the deaths they will cause
Agreed.
> A few of those children might turn out to be be murderers. Others will cause accidents, maybe big ones. Others still will have consumption habits that snuff out future lives.
That's right: each person that comes into existence has some chance of making the world worse for others, and some chance of making it better. I think that overall new people are a positive contribution, especially if you consider their own enjoyment of life, but if you think it's the other way then it's completely to reasonable count "more people will be born" as a negative feature of a policy.
> Imagine if Adolf Hitler's mother had died in some accident before he had been conceived and born; how would you tally the accident?
When looking at moral questions you're generally concerned with decisions: do I try jump in to help with this accident in front of me? Do I give money to this person that seems to need it more than I do? Do I advocate for this policy? It's not clear to me what sort of moral question your hypothetical corresponds to, since at the time of the accident (or before that if we're considering the value of some sort of policy that might have affected the chance of her dying) no one knows that it's her child in particular that would end up causing such enormous harm.
That time could be a lot shorter than 150 years. Say a one-year-long time bomb kills someone's newborn infant, and only that infant. When the bomb was planted, that infant hadn't yet been conceived. Of course that bomber is going behind bars.
If we bite the hook then the thing we care about is something like expected value.
That only applies for non-actualized future events. We tally the accident of Hitler's mother's death according to the probabilistic expected value of her contribution, which was approximately the same as any other woman of her time and place.
As a pretty positive development. But kinda, none of us have predictive abilities like that.