I spent many years on hardware consultation and was amazed at the all the times I had to explain it was just a what if insurance like any other things their business was mitigating against. Sometimes they'd even decided they needed to save costs in non-ecc ram when it was $4 a gb in difference, or (during the FB-DIMM era) there wasn't even an option to avoid it.
Never really understood the resistance towards it.
Maybe the lack of evidence before the Google study and people thinking RAM manufacturers were trying to rip them off or something.
The "never had a problem so why would I need" it attitude with no way to know if an issue was caused by a bit flip was most baffling.
Here ya go:
https://nemixram.com/16gb-ddr4-3200-pc4-25600-ecc-udimm-2rx8...
It doesn't have pretty lights on it, but it does seem to be in the same speed class that gets called "gaming RAM" by a _whole_ bunch of retailers.
Unless you have a particular reason to keep your order history in Newegg, just buy direct from NEMIX.
(IDK about NEMIX's relationship with Amazon, as I don't buy things from Amazon.)
Onto the discussion of ECC RAM. In a perfect world, all memory would be ECC... but try finding some high performance 16GB sticks of ECC DDR4 RAM like what you'll see on gaming computers. I don't even think they make anything comparable in terms of speed and definitely not costs. I guess you don't really know that you needed ECC until it's too late.