Re:Ask HN: Startup CEO wants to improve people skills, but how?
by guywondering on Tuesday January 03, 2012 @03:39AM
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thanks, actually i run a meetup group on unrelated topic. but still find it hard to relax and have natural friendships with people (feedback i get is that i am too serious, but its hard to just "lighten up")
I've met such a diverse group of people over the years that small talk has become much easier. This was always a problem for me in the past. I'm much more relaxed now when confronted with situations where I have to interact with people I don't know.
Like anything, it's just going to take practice. You can't read it in a book. You just need to go out there and do it.