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Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by kayodelycaon on Thursday December 15, 2022 @01:42PM (#34003746)
The first problem I see is separating my online identity with my real identity. I really don't want anyone at my job finding out which dog I am on the internet.

My coworkers and family really wouldn't appreciate my shit posting. :)

The second is friends of friends can get really awkward. There are some people who are friends with me that are also friends with people who never want to see me again.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by ineptech on Thursday December 15, 2022 @01:58PM (#34003981)
I mean, nothing would stop you from making a fake identity, and friending other anonymous people, and posting spicy memes. But you can do that on mastodon today, right? This is for the cases where you want to prove your identity. If most people use it that way, then the anonymous people would be little subnets that are either separate from the main graph or connected by only a few nodes. Typical users would* have dozens of people vouching for them, who each have dozens of people vouching for them, etc, which is strong evidence that they're who they say they are.

* in some hypothetical future where this gets made and is wildly successful

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by shanebellone on Thursday December 15, 2022 @01:48PM (#34003850)
That's exactly the point of small social circles. You can segment your audience as a broadcaster based on shared interests, language, and understanding.

The vast majority of the Internet doesn't need to read your shit posting. However, a small group of friends might find that appealing. If no one finds that content useful, amusing, or interesting... you'd be screaming at a wall. Isn't that exactly how it should be?

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by kayodelycaon on Thursday December 15, 2022 @01:53PM (#34003914)
That's... not relevant? OP was talking about a system that requires tapping phones to connect and using friends of friends to form secondary connections.

This is why I have a burner sim for online accounts requiring a phone number. (Looking at you Telegram...)

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by shanebellone on Thursday December 15, 2022 @02:20PM (#34004268)
Whoops, my bad.

I also maintain two phone numbers but for different reasons. I hate spam.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by SoftTalker on Thursday December 15, 2022 @03:58PM (#34005673)
> My coworkers and family really wouldn't appreciate my shit posting.

Shit posting is one of the biggest forms of toxicity online. It would be nice if it went away by tying posts to real people. Some people don't care and would shitpost anyway, but most people only shitpost because nobody knows who they really are.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by some_furry on Thursday December 15, 2022 @04:50PM (#34006294)
This comment rhymes with the justifications for Real Name policies. They don't work.

All real name policies do is make many LGBTQ+ people feel unwelcome.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by kayodelycaon on Thursday December 15, 2022 @05:23PM (#34006662)
Facebook does tie posts to real people. It doesn’t work. People are just as toxic.
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by SketchySeaBeast on Thursday December 15, 2022 @05:29PM (#34006728)
It would appear there is some irony in this SoftTalker.
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by mattl on Thursday December 15, 2022 @06:11PM (#34007138)
What do you define as shit posting?
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by mariusor on Thursday December 15, 2022 @08:06PM (#34008149)
Not the person you're replying to, but I agree with them. For me shitposting is discussing in bad faith.
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by mattl on Thursday December 15, 2022 @08:33PM (#34008390)
But what is it?
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by mathieuh on Thursday December 15, 2022 @11:14PM (#34010096)
Being contrarian for no other reason than to annoy, or trying to get under someone’s skin, ignoring their arguments and riding roughshod over what they’re trying to say. Things people avoid doing in real life because very soon after doing them you find yourself disliked.
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by slipperlobster on Thursday December 15, 2022 @08:22PM (#34008286)
Oh my god, yes. It's like most online content has to be communicated in crappy memes, sarcastic quotes, and weird existential dread responses. It drives me insane.
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by eldritch_4ier on Thursday December 15, 2022 @08:34PM (#34008407)
The bar for "shitposting you don't want your coworkers to know about" is so low nowadays that it's almost a free speech issue to allow anonymous accounts.

If you post about not like drag shows in front of children, that itself is harmless enough in a vacuum but polarizes people to a serious extent

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by DougEiffel on Thursday December 15, 2022 @09:58PM (#34009262)
I think maybe it depends how you define shit posting. If you mean trolling or posting extremely negative and low-effort content, then I suppose I agree with you about it being toxic.

But if shitposting is just off-color jokes or talking about topics you might want to keep private, I don't see that as a problem. I think a lot of great internet content wouldn't exist without some form of anonymity. I certainly wouldn't share genuine insights into my job without anonymity. People wouldn't share sexual content or secrets. Many people wouldn't share anything at all no matter how tame or appropriate. My wife over thinks when she writes and is always afraid she isn't wording things well. She posts absolutely nothing outside of Reddit.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by kayodelycaon on Thursday December 15, 2022 @10:30PM (#34009654)
My definition of shit posting is the stuff I say on Reddit. The highest rated comment on my previous account there would likely get me banned here. :)
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by adlpz on Thursday December 15, 2022 @11:44PM (#34010385)
I'd say that then this hypothetical new social network just wouldn't be suitable for Reddit-like shitposting.

Keep Reddit and Twitter for that, this-new-thing for real-identity real talk.

I don't see a problem and I'd love it.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by lofaszvanitt on Thursday December 15, 2022 @11:08PM (#34010027)
Grow a thick skin. Instead of shielding people from real world things expose them to it. In a few generations they get used to it/learn to use it.

Like Google deliberately fucking up their image search and not releasing a proper face search... because rainbow ponies would fall from the sky.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by DoingIsLearning on Friday December 16, 2022 @04:03AM (#34012420)
I am not even sure how this is an actual position to be defended.

Writing anonymously or with pseudonyms is as old as feather pens. It allowed people to denounce tyrants and allowed women to publish their writings.

To force everyone to show an id to publish is either very naive or ill-intented to push us into a full Orwellian framework.

'Shitposting' or scorn writing is the price to pay so that anonymity is there for when you _truly_ need it.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by throwoutway on Friday December 16, 2022 @08:21AM (#34014227)
As people who don’t do this, I prefer to stay anonymous. Anonymous writing has a long and good history with some bad apples. Don’t throw the baby out with the bathwafrr
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by eitland on Friday December 16, 2022 @07:16PM (#34022546)
> It would be nice if it went away by tying posts to real people. Some people don't care and would shitpost anyway, but most people only shitpost because nobody knows who they really are.

If this was true and the only explanation, HN should be much worse than it is and Facebook should be much better than it is.

Even as a person who hardly ever get in trouble with mods I have come to deeply appreciate the possibility to have accounts or profiles totally disconnected from reality.

Many stories we see couldn't have been shared if a hard link to a real identity was necessary, and many questions could not ve asked.

For example random22username12 asking about some technical aspect about some software is not a problem.

But if he is Firstname Lastname from Some Company it might get him in trouble, as it might tell others what they are working on.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by mywacaday on Thursday December 15, 2022 @04:30PM (#34006051)
I had a conversation recently about the problems of social media and the growing extremes of political viewpoints. We agreed the a good part of the problem is partially caused by the online echo chamber but mostly by the increasing physical isolation of people in the real world. In the past the majority of men would have worked in manual labor with lots of other people, women would have worked at home and spent a lot more time getting to know their neighbours, now we work in isolation on a screen and stay at home without integrating with a community on a daily basis like times past. This allows people's views to go unchallenged and reduces the middle ground we all depended upon. Previously our vees would be challenged and our standing in our community would depend on our views. To go back to your point about anonymity should we be posting stuff online that we know our physical peers would have a problem with. Anonymity has its place I'm just not sure where the line is drawn.
Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by kayodelycaon on Thursday December 15, 2022 @05:38PM (#34006805)
To some degree, I agree. But I also grew up before social media. Very little has changed about the fundamental ugliness of human behavior we try to tuck into a corner.

As someone who was seriously hurt by forced conformity, I’m not exactly pining for the way things used to be.

It wasn’t that long ago when people were expected to drink themselves to death rather than seek help.

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by happyopossum on Thursday December 15, 2022 @08:32PM (#34008388)
> My coworkers and family really wouldn't appreciate my shit posting. :)

Hey, here’s a thought. Maybe if there were any locally observable consequences to that behavior you’d stop and the Internet would be a better place…

Re:Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? by kayodelycaon on Thursday December 15, 2022 @10:20PM (#34009534)
The “shit posting” referring to my dark, sarcastic humor. It gets upvotes on Reddit but I try to keep it off Hacker News. :)

I worry more about my parents reading about how I see my childhood or a future employer knowing I’m bipolar.

And there are consequences to my behavior online.

Kayodé Lycaon is my identity in the furry fandom. People know me in real life under this name. I’m published under this name.

In a lot of ways, my legal identity is the pseudonym. I think of myself as Kayodé more than [legal name].