I always like to ask myself: "what are they trying to get me to do?". Whether it's a habit, voting pattern, product, etc. Then I ask myself: "is it useful? who does it benefit?"
Whether it's true or not, idrc. what's more important (at least to me) is what it does and who it benefits
(also in this case to avoid any ethical conundrums, something is useful if it makes $, beneficial to X party if it makes them $)
I'm in the field. Haven't experienced people who I could have described as bros. Can you point to one example?
But this is an interpretation after the fact, it feels exactly like you describe it. Stupor.
Edit: typo
The reason I use stocks as an example - you can do some analysis on something, be pretty darn sure that a company is overvalued or undervalued or will grow about X or profitability will be Y, or some new product can't possibly work... and a few years later you'll be dead wrong, and the numbers will be right there to show you. You can't push back, you are wrong. You missed something, misunderstood something, underestimated something, overestimated something. Lots of smart people had well reasoned and informed arguments as to why the apple iphone wouldn't be a success.
Even if you are perfectly rational and logical, there is always the possibility you are missing a variable or a premise is just wrong enough to screw you. And the very person most likely to see the thing you are missing is someone quite different from you, who you may well think less of for whatever reason (even if it's valid, like crypto bros who do indeed seem to know zero about the financial system they criticize, and who i look down upon).
- Startup founders without any domain experience in extremely risky ventures
- Crypto bros
- Donald Trump
I consider myself - and others view me as - a hyperrational person (possibly often to a fault), and I must admit that when I hear an outlandish claim like the ones spewed by the above, I am sometimes left in a strange emotional state... a stupor?
Like, I don't quite believe the claim because I'm defensively rational, but I feel a certain dizziness and confusion (thinking to myself, "could this actually be true?") until I come back to my senses. The more outlandish and impassioned the speech, the stronger the effect.
It's made me realise we're all built similarly, from the most rational from the most gullible.