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Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by revskill on Saturday November 19, 2022 @03:17AM (#33668190)
What i care: Health, sports, peace of soul, ability to learn, science, music, programming, mathematics.

What my "friends" care: Money, more money, more money.

That's why i'm still lonely.

Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by BLKNSLVR on Saturday November 19, 2022 @04:03AM (#33668442)
Look for local communities in your areas of interest. To some extent, you also have to put yourself out there.

You're the bait with which you're fishing.

Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by revskill on Saturday November 19, 2022 @04:05AM (#33668450)
No, it's from my childhood. All people i met don't have the same passion as mine. I just accepted the truth and no longer care what others do anymore.

COnsider this as a confession, no need to up/down vote.

Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by redcenturion on Saturday November 19, 2022 @04:16AM (#33668502)
Hey!

I got lonely/depressed in 2020 and started a hiking group. It was a cool experiment that failed. I was not able to monetize or scale it. I was bummed for awhile, but upon further reflection I examine the Pareto 80/20 in action. Because I started this group I met some amazing people that love adventure and plan/invite me to their adventures. I also met a very good friend who is focused on business/start up life. So my life has improved a lot even though the outcome was not what I was hoping for.

I'm still on the journey to understand and operate in my zone of genius. Though I think money is important (to the extent that bills are paid and 9-5 can be avoided) I value experiences and creating impact.

Let me know if you'd like to connect.

Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by booleandilemma on Saturday November 19, 2022 @09:18AM (#33670261)
If this is satire, this is Grade A satire.
Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by danrocks on Saturday November 19, 2022 @12:30PM (#33672305)
A-. It would be grade A if it ended with a crypto story.
Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by redcenturion on Saturday November 19, 2022 @09:36PM (#33677553)
Incorrect.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CFKIbIghK5t/?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=

I'm not trying to use satire. My attempts at building community in a busy and fragmented world. :)

Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by reducesuffering on Sunday November 20, 2022 @05:41PM (#33686281)
It's very concerning to others and myself why you think attempting to "monetize or scale" a hiking group is normal.
Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by iower on Saturday November 19, 2022 @06:53AM (#33669336)
we can be friends then
Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by revskill on Saturday November 19, 2022 @07:11AM (#33669436)
Nice. Please give me contact !
Re:How Friendships Change in Adulthood by squintychino on Saturday November 19, 2022 @12:35PM (#33672377)
To use your 4x money argument - Why couldn't you care at least about 2x money? Or even 1x money? For the sake of being friends with your "friends"?

Friendship isn't an all or nothing proposition. You don't have to be perfectly aligned with another persons' morals and values to be friends with them. Sometimes just having one or two things in common is what is needed to keep those bonds going.