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Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @01:35PM (#33628152)
> Let's quickly drop the idea that this is the fault of nosey neighbors

No, let's not. According to the article, the neighbor who called the cops asked the boy where he lived, "verified that it was just down the street, and proceeded to call nonetheless". Excuse me? What decent neighbor calls the cops on a neighbor's kid walking just down the street from his own house?

I agree the law in question shouldn't even be on the books in the first place, but one of the things you're supposed to do as a neighbor is to understand that we have an insane legal system and not invoke it on one of your neighbors unless you really, really have to.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by ajsnigrutin on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @01:43PM (#33628314)
I mean... this is a case where the police should also say "it's ok, it's not that far mr/mrs neighbor, you don't have to call us for that".

it's also a case if the police actually cuffed and brought the mom to jail, someone there should tell them they won't book them for something stupid.

If a DA is involved, it's also a case where the DA should say that they won't prosecute such a stupid thing.

This failure is not one crazy individual, but a whole failed system, from the bottom up. You'll always have a crazy neighbor, a paranoid cop, etc., but having a whole chain this rotten really sucks, and something should really be changed.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by dsfyu404ed on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:05PM (#33628681)
This is what lack of diversity gets you. Nobody in the chain of events thought anything happening was unreasonable enough to say something. There were probably ~8 people involved from the call to the officers to the DA and the administrative people in the middle who would have had a chance to opine. It only would have taken one Ron Swanson type to be like "hey, this is insane and we're gonna wind up being a national news story if we go through with this".
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by cool_dude85 on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:20PM (#33628942)
I don't think you want a lot of "Ron Swanson types", by which I infer you mean libertarians, getting involved in child protective services.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by SuoDuanDao on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:32PM (#33629164)
Why not?
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by cool_dude85 on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:38PM (#33629286)
Well, I personally believe that the logical outcome of libertarian thought as it regards kids is that a parent does not have the right to aggress against his children, but also that the parent should not have a legal obligation to feed, clothe, or educate his children, since such obligations would entail positive acts coerced upon the parent and depriving the parent of his rights. The parent therefore may not murder or mutilate his child, and the law properly outlaws a parent from doing so. But the parent should have the legal right not to feed the child, i.e., to allow it to die.

So that's one reason you wouldn't want a libertarian CPS agent.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:54PM (#33629533)
Your claim about the logical outcome of libertarian thought is wrong, because it fails to consider a key fact: the child is there because of the parents' choice. They chose to bring the child into the world. Or, if they adopted the child, they chose to do that. And when you make that choice, you accept the obligations that come with it. There is nothing in libertarianism that prevents people from making choices that come with obligations that they must accept. The only thing libertarianism would be against would be forcing people to raise children they did not bring into the world or did not adopt.

There are edge cases, such as a woman becoming pregnant against her will (rape, for example); but those are edge cases and don't change the basic principle.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by nearbuy on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @03:02PM (#33629673)
Good luck finding a libertarian that believes parents shouldn't have to feed their children. I think you've made a straw man argument.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by cool_dude85 on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @04:02PM (#33630524)
It's a direct quote from Murray Rothbard. So that's one at least.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @04:40PM (#33631091)
While Rothbard is of course one of the major figures in libertarianism, he is also notorious for overstating things, and making claims about what "libertarianism" requires that are not endorsed by other prominent libertarians. The claim under discussion here is a case in point.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by caseysoftware on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @04:52PM (#33631270)
> It's a direct quote from Murray Rothbard. So that's one at least.

Ugh. That sounds ugly. Which part is the quote?

I assume not the "Well, I personally believe.." part but don't see any quotation marks so hard to tell.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by nearbuy on Thursday November 17, 2022 @09:57PM (#33649401)
I think they're referring to this from The Ethics of Liberty:

> Applying our theory to parents and children, this means that a parent does not have the right to aggress against his children, but also that the parent should not have a legal obligation to feed, clothe, or educate his children, since such obligations would entail positive acts coerced upon the parent and depriving the parent of his rights. The parent therefore may not murder or mutilate his child, and the law properly outlaws a parent from doing so. But the parent should have the legal right not to feed the child, i.e., to allow it to die. The law, therefore, may not properly compel the parent to feed a child or to keep it alive. (Again, whether or not a parent has a moral rather than a legally enforceable obligation to keep his child alive is a completely separate question.)

It's a pretty extreme view. However, he points out that parents still have a moral obligation to feed their child, and goes on to argue that removing the legal obligation would actually make things better for children. I think his argument is that bad parents who don't want their child would be able to sell their child to a nice family, and anyone who cares so little for their child that they'd let them starve would probably rather just sell the child.

I'm not a libertarian myself, so I don't agree with this. I'm just summarizing.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by vagrantJin on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @03:25PM (#33630004)
This is definitely sarcasm. It is sarcasm, yes?
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by COGlory on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @01:44PM (#33628325)
It isn't the neighbors job to be mentally functional. It is, however, the police's, DA, and CPS's job.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:15PM (#33628834)
> It isn't the neighbors job to be mentally functional.

I'm not sure I agree. One of the requirements for an adult citizen in a civil society is to be reasonable in your dealings with neighbors.

> It is, however, the police's, DA, and CPS's job.

"Mentally functional" does not necessarily mean "giving citizens a break". The criminal law that the mom was charged with is a law, it's on the books, and law enforcement is supposed to enforce the law. They do have a certain amount of discretion, but the incentives they are facing, particularly in a community which is strongly in favor of "law and order" (which I suspect the one in question is), are against their exercising discretion in favor of a citizen. And putting the "sex trafficking" thing into the mix just makes it worse.

The only real way to fix this is to remove things like this from the discretion of law enforcement by not having a law like this in the first place. (Unfortunately, it appears that when the law was revised to allow kids more independence, they only revised the family law code, not the criminal code. They should have revised both. So I would say the ultimate fault here is the legislature, for being incompetent when making law.)

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by kelnos on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:33PM (#33629196)
The actions of the neighbor is something we can't control for, because we can't control the attitudes and behaviors of people. We can only influence them to some degree. What we can control is the law, and law enforcement response.

Don't get me wrong, I would love it if people everywhere acted rationally and only stuck their nose into other people's business when it is actually necessary and useful to do at. But it's not realistic to expect that we can "fix" everyone, so we should focus on the things we can fix instead.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:58PM (#33629598)
> The actions of the neighbor is something we can't control for, because we can't control the attitudes and behaviors of people. We can only influence them to some degree.

I agree, but this is perfectly consistent with what I said. Not every adult meets the requirements for an adult citizen in a civil society. That doesn't mean those requirements don't exist.

> What we can control is the law, and law enforcement response.

To the extent this is true, it does not preclude also expecting adult citizens to be reasonable. Indeed, the more we can count on that, the less people will feel the need to invoke the law. Which makes it much easier to make the law more reasonable.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by bengy5959 on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:27PM (#33629074)
Should someone get a ticket for going 66 mph in a 65 zone? I don't really think officer discretion is avoidable to a certain degree. Laws can never be written perfectly. There are always going to be ridiculous edge cases like this where a reasonable person would know the law shouldn't be applied. This is why so much legal precedent is based on what a reasonable person would do or what a reasonable person would assume given a certain situation.

I do agree that the neighbor should not be let off on this, nor am I trying to excuse their behavior. But there are always going to be Karens that call the cops for no reason and the system has to be able to deal with that.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @03:03PM (#33629688)
> Should someone get a ticket for going 66 mph in a 65 zone?

Speed limit laws should not even exist in the first place. They are a paradigmatic example of laws that are unreasonable and should not exist. The fact that it is impossible to enforce them as written, or even with light-years of as written, is one reason for that.

> I don't really think officer discretion is avoidable to a certain degree.

To a certain degree, yes. But it should be limited. In the system we have now, it's not; the scope of laws on the books is huge, to the point that all of us are probably technically violating multiple laws every day, and we are all relying on a huge amount of discretion on the part of law enforcement to allow us to go about our business without continually being interrupted. That's not good.

> there are always going to be Karens that call the cops for no reason and the system has to be able to deal with that.

Yes, and the way to deal with it is to have the law be reasonable. It is not to have lots of unreasonable laws on the books and then hope that law enforcement exercises discretion in practically all cases, only actually prosecuting the "really serious" ones. It's to not have unreasonable laws on the books at all, so when a Karen calls the cops for no reason, the cops can just say "Ma'am, that's not against the law, nothing for us to do."

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @06:04PM (#33632245)
So you think there’s nothing wrong with blowing through a school zone at 150mph? Speed limit laws are clearly flawed in many ways but there is a clear reason why they should exist.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by trinovantes on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @07:24PM (#33633141)
Speed limits (in North America) are simply the 85th percentile speed of drivers on a specific type of road. The onus should be on the civil engineer who designed the road to make it physically impossible to go 150 in the first place - e.g. narrow/curved lanes, speed bumps, concrete bollards, trees on the sides, etc. If roads are actually designed properly, then speed limit laws are unnecessary because drivers will naturally slow down to avoid damaging their vehicle or themselves.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @09:18PM (#33634094)
To some extent I agree with you but I think intentionally wild, reckless driving would still exist and need to be controlled even with smarter road design.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @07:34PM (#33633250)
> So you think there’s nothing wrong with blowing through a school zone at 150mph?

I have said no such thing. Do you really believe that the law is the only thing that defines what's "wrong"?

> Speed limit laws are clearly flawed in many ways but there is a clear reason why they should exist.

No, what is clear is that the law should be written to penalize actual harm. Speed limit laws don't do that. They penalize people who have caused no harm, and because they can only be enforced arbitrarily--who gets stopped for speeding has nothing to do with actual risk reduction--they reduce people's respect for the law in general.

A properly written law for "rules of the road" for speed would be something like this: The posted "speed limit" on any public road is advisory; you cannot be stopped or ticketed simply for driving faster than the posted limit. However, if you are in an accident and it is found that you were exceeding the posted limit, you are presumed to be at fault. (You can still rebut the presumption, but that requires going to court and presenting evidence and having the judge rule in your favor based on that evidence.)

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @09:19PM (#33634104)
By this logic they should let you drive drunk until you hit someone too. I think doing things in your car that have substantial and easily preventable risk to other people should not be allowed.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Thursday November 17, 2022 @01:29AM (#33635679)
> By this logic they should let you drive drunk until you hit someone too.

I have said no such thing. The only implication of my position for drunk driving is that the law should not be able to punish you for it if you cause no harm. But that in no way means that, for example, a cop who sees you driving erratically can't pull you over, give you a breathalyzer test, find out that you're too drunk to drive, and lock your car, making sure that it's safely parked, and then ask you who to call to come pick you up and take you home. He just can't write you a ticket that forces you to either come to court or pay a fine.

It also in no way means that other people have to let you drive drunk. Bars don't have to sell you drinks if you're going to drive. Friends don't have to let you drive drunk. And in a sane society of responsible adults, those kinds of preventions work better than any law possibly can. The fact that our society has so many nanny state laws that micromanage all aspects of life is a sign that we don't live in a sane society of responsible adults.

> I think doing things in your car that have substantial and easily preventable risk to other people should not be allowed

I think you are way too ready to give power to the government, which will abuse it, and the costs of that abuse of power will far outweigh any possible benefit from such laws.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Friday November 18, 2022 @12:24AM (#33650719)
I am not sure why a cop pulling you over for driving erratically is any different in principle than a cop pulling you over for traveling at an unsafe speed (again, for the purposes of this example, imagine a truly unsafe speed, not 5 mph over).
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Sunday November 20, 2022 @04:49PM (#33685783)
There are two differences.

First, if a cop pulls you over for speeding, it's not for "traveling at an unsafe speed". It's because you were going faster than the posted limit. The law says nothing whatever about such a speed being unsafe. In practice, cops usually don't pull people over just for speeding, but only for going significantly faster than the general flow of traffic. But that's only usually; cops in most jurisdictions have monthly or quarterly ticket quotas, and if it's getting close to the end of the quota period and they're behind on tickets, it's simple to go out to places where people routinely speed and start pulling everyone over. I have seen this happen.

"Driving erratically", unlike "going faster than the posted speed limit", is always a subjective judgment on the cop's part (in most jurisdictions it's something like "reckless driving" or "driving in a clearly unsafe manner"), but the whole point is that it's supposed to be rare; by definition most people on the road will not be driving recklessly and this kind of law can't be abused in the way I described above just to make a ticket quota.

However, the important difference I was talking about was not between speeding and "driving erratically", it was about under what circumstances the cop can write you a ticket that forces you to either pay a fine or come to court. Under our current laws, a cop can do that whenever he pulls you over--there will always be some traffic law you were violating. ("Driving erratically", or something similar, in itself is a traffic violation under current law.) Under the libertarian system I have been describing, the cop could not write you a ticket that forces you to either pay a fine or come to court unless you actually caused harm. He could take steps to prevent you from driving if you hadn't caused harm but were clearly not capable of driving safely, by an objective test (such as a breathalyzer), but he could not impose a fine or court appearance on you.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Sunday November 20, 2022 @08:01PM (#33687424)
My entire point here is that just because the system now allows the cops to be capricious doesn't mean we have to throw the baby out with the bathwater and say there is no speed that is so unsafe that it warrants punishment.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @06:03PM (#33632234)
They put “sex trafficking” into the mix themselves despite conceding it isn’t even happening, to their knowledge, in the area.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by z9znz on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @01:49PM (#33628424)
It's also suburban Waco, Texas. That's not exactly the epicenter of education in the US, much less even in Texas.

Ironically, more rural Texas regions tend to ha√e more independent kids; after all, you'll see 10 year old kids driving the family truck on farms and ranches.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by steelframe on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @01:56PM (#33628534)
> more rural Texas regions tend to ha√e more independent kids

Genuinely curious. How did you manage to type '√' rather than 'v'? It this a keyboard or locale issue?

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by z9znz on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:40PM (#33629337)
That's the first time I've gotten that instead of a V. I didn't bother editing it because I thought it was amusing.

More often (but still rare), I'll end up with a † instead of t. As someone below mentioned, it appears to be (on Mac) opt+key.

I use a Razer Blackwidow something something mechanical keyboard, and it sits pretty tall. Only just now I figured out how I think this opt thing is happening. The side of my left hand appears to sometimes sit low enough that it may be bumping the opt key. Prior to this moment, the whole † thing had been a mystery to me :P.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by moreati on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:02PM (#33628641)
Not OP, speculating. On a Mac option + v types a √, which is a fairly easy typo.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by z9znz on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:42PM (#33629366)
Yes, this seems to be what is happening. I now think that on rare occasions the side of my left hand may be brushing the opt key while I type. Until today, it has only been a very rare † instead of t. √ is a new one for me.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by jonny_eh on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:24PM (#33629033)
It is?
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by Mountain_Skies on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @01:56PM (#33628535)
It puts neighbors in a bad situation. Yesterday there was a kid, probably about eight years old, outside my house wandering around by himself, yelling at passing cars. There are lots of kids in my neighborhood and I'm accustomed to them being loud when they're out playing but this kid was alone, going out into the road, and just acting a bit weird. It wasn't a kid I knew so I couldn't call the parents but calling the police also seemed like a questionable thing to do. I'm near a speed bump so cars generally go slow through here but there are other parts of the street when they often have more speed. I didn't want to approach him (all manner of trouble can come from an adult approaching a child they don't know), police seemed like overkill, but being out in the road, especially since he was walking away from the speed bump area, seemed potentially dangerous. Eventually he went into a house across the street five or six houses down which recently sold so probably is a new family to the neighborhood.

Still not sure what I should have done if he hadn't gone home or really if this is a problem waiting to happen. At his age I wandered much further from home and put myself in worse potential danger at times, though I probably never yelled at passing cars. No one ever called the police on me though there were a few times when an adult told me to stop doing whatever I was up to or go somewhere else.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:03PM (#33628647)
> Still not sure what I should have done

If you don't know which house the kid belongs in, the first thing I would do is to find out. Start knocking on doors and asking if it's their kid.

Now that you do know, the obvious thing to do is to introduce yourself to the neighbors and describe what their kid was doing. They're new to the neighborhood so you can pitch it as letting them know that there are a lot of passing cars at that point and kids should be aware of the danger.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by hn_user2 on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:10PM (#33628770)
Weird time to be alive when we are afraid to get within 10 feet of a kid a yell "HEY KID, GET OUT OF THE ROAD!". And yet, totally understand.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by agentwiggles on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @04:53PM (#33631294)
Not too long ago, my son was riding his bike down the street (which he's not supposed to do, he's supposed to stay on the sidewalk).

A driver yelled at him, something fairly vulgar like "get out of the fucking road, asshole!"

He came home and reported this to me. I was more gentle obviously, and told him that the guy wasn't very nice for swearing at him.

But honestly, I don't blame the guy, and I'm happy he yelled at him. I'm sure he'll remember that incident next time he's cruising down the middle of the road.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:17PM (#33628892)
> all manner of trouble can come from an adult approaching a child they don't know

If you do it by yourself. But you can always try to recruit another adult--a neighbor you know, for example. Having an independent witness makes a big difference.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by richx on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:09PM (#33628751)
Why didn’t you just ask the kid what it is doing and where it is living?
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by rootusrootus on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:26PM (#33629051)
Perhaps OP is a man. I wouldn't approach a strange child outside my house, either, unless they were on my property doing something destructive. Better to let my wife handle such situations.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by mhb on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:20PM (#33628935)
Do you actually think that using "it" to refer to a kid is less discordant than some sane alternative like he/she? Or even just "he" anticipating that the reader will forgive you for using the gender-specific pronoun to refer to a person of unknown gender?
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by HarryHirsch on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:15PM (#33628836)
In America that will immediately identify you as a childlifter. Next thing that happens, you'll have to deal with the cops and the court system.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by patorjk on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @04:23PM (#33630840)
It sounds like you did the right thing, you were concerned and kept an eye on things. Calling the police would have been overkill and maybe wrecked this kids' family life (like what happened in the article). Other than that, I see no problem with approaching the kid and saying something like "hey, you can get hurt playing in the street, please take this to your backyard", or something like that. As long as you don't try and start a conversation it's not going to be weird. If you have a kid he may even know who you are already. All of the kids in my neighborhood know me as "Edward's dad", even though I wouldn't be able to pick most of them out of a lineup.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by SuperQue on Friday November 18, 2022 @04:49PM (#33662831)
Ugh, speedbumps are so dangerous.

Sure, they make you slow down for them. But drivers now want to "make up" for that slow down. So they drive even faster between them.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by vlunkr on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:01PM (#33628610)
> the law in question shouldn't even be on the books in the first place

Based on the article, it's not clear that they are breaking any law, and in fact Texas passed the Reasonable Childhood Independence law that should allow this. Lots of people are to blame here, but the cops escalated by arresting her on a flimsy basis. The incident could have stopped there.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by pdonis on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @02:08PM (#33628727)
> Based on the article, it's not clear that they are breaking any law, and in fact Texas passed the Reasonable Childhood Independence law that should allow this.

The article points out that that Texas law did not change the criminal code, so even though it was no longer a family law violation (hence CPS dismissed the case), it was still technically a criminal violation (hence the mom still had to plea bargain or go to trial).

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by randomdata on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @04:58PM (#33631364)
> What decent neighbor calls the cops on a neighbor's kid walking just down the street from his own house?

Well, what decent neighbour isn't able to, at the very least, recognize his neighbors?

Maybe this child's parents have kept him locked in the closet, never seen by anyone before, until this one time he emerged unto the world and the police were called not because he was on the street, but because he's never been on the street before.

But more likely this person isn't a neighbor, at least not mentally.

Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Wednesday November 16, 2022 @06:01PM (#33632199)
Most of us?
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by randomdata on Thursday November 17, 2022 @02:14AM (#33635917)
You can't be a decent neighbor if you have no concept of who your neighbors are. You may not be best friends or know their entire life story, but if you can't even recognize them then there is simply no neighborly connection to work with. Without that, they're just people, same as any other found the world over. You can try to be decent to all, but that's not quite the same thing.
Re:Mom Handcuffed, Jailed for 8-Year-Old Son Walking Half a ... by emodendroket on Friday November 18, 2022 @12:26AM (#33650736)
OK. Then probably a majority of Americans aren't "decent neighbors" because having no idea who your neighbors are is extremely common.