[*] I guess the cities which successfully do this have a long history of being centres of trade and commerce. Those activities facilitate pro-tolerance and anti-zero-sum thinking.
These are _essential_ complexities of land use in SF that are fairly unique to it, and hence comparisons to other cities are rarely useful.
Not that San Mateo and Santa Clara are much easier to find real estate in these days, but they're easier than San Francisco. Just not as cool.
There's a reason the top 8[1] most dense municipalities are in the NYC area: there's limited developable land.
[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_cities_b...
* NYC is a lot more than Manhattan.
* NYC is a substantially larger area than SF.
* SF is also substantially built on top of reclaimed mud flats.
* NYC is tectonically stable. All of these things mean that comparisons between the two cities approach to land use are basically meaningless.
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> An ambitious young person can now have that awesome Google job while living in the Meatpacking district and walking to the Google office in Chelsea.
Although this is in itself a bit of an odd take given that this has been the case for over fifteen years— I was literally living this life as an intern at Google NYC in 2007.
*fly in, crap all over everything, fly out