I see many more people crying censorship when messages that they want others to see are blocked.

You must hang out in a very different place, then. I see much more outcry when 3rd parties come between willing speakers and recipients, with most of the rest being people misrepresenting censorship as moderation because it allows them to justify it.

In that vein, this went up on HN the other day: https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/moderation-is-differen...