If Parler supported open debate, then the phrase "banned from Parler" would not yield the search results it does.

Your second paragraph uses the rhetorical device of an appeal to extremes.

Further, these "young girls" are trans boys/men who are becoming something in strong contrast to who they are. I know we disagree conceptually on that, but I would advocate that aside from the parent, the child, and the doctor, neither the state nor anyone else has standing to involve themselves in that decision.